Social skills affect many areas of a child’s everyday life. Children use them when playing with siblings, participating in preschool or school, attending family gatherings, visiting the playground, and taking part in community activities.
Some children naturally develop these skills through everyday interactions. Others may need more direct instruction and repeated opportunities to practice.
Social skills for children with autism may include:
- Responding when someone speaks to them
- Initiating an interaction
- Asking for help
- Sharing toys and materials
- Taking turns
- Waiting appropriately
- Joining a group activity
- Following group directions
- Participating in cooperative play
- Communicating wants and needs
- Understanding simple social expectations
- Staying engaged during an activity
Developing these skills can make it easier for children to participate in activities with peers and adults.
Social skills are built on a series of foundational behaviors that many children need support developing. These skills are essential for successful interaction with peers and adults in everyday situations.
Our team may work with children on skills such as:
Taking Turns
Turn-taking is an important part of play and group activities. Children may practice waiting while another person has a turn and recognizing when it is their opportunity to participate.
Sharing
Sharing materials can be challenging for young children, particularly when they are highly interested in a particular toy or activity. Structured practice can help children learn how to share materials while communicating what they want.
Waiting
Children encounter situations where they cannot immediately access an item, activity, or person. Learning to wait appropriately can support participation at school, home, and in the community.
Following Group Directions
Classrooms and group activities often require children to listen to instructions given to several children at once. Practicing group directions can help prepare children for structured learning environments.
Communicating With Others
Communication is central to social interaction. Children need ways to request, respond, make choices, ask for assistance, and express their needs.
Communication goals may involve spoken language, gestures, visual supports, or AAC when appropriate.